1 Corinthians 13:4 AMP
[4] Love endures with patience and serenity, love is kind and thoughtful, and is not jealous or envious; love does not brag and is not proud or arrogant.
Paul was writing to the church in Corinth on different topics. The chapter before the one from where the verse above is taken was speaking on the use of spiritual gift. The main emphasis was on using these spiritual gifts for the growth of the church, the deepening of the Christian experience, and of course, to the glory of God. If there is one major lesson that this Christian experience has taught me, it is that these gifts of the spirit can sometimes be an avenue for pride and self-importance. How can something you could not invent or manufacture fill you with a sense of your own importance? This is why the message in the verse above is timely and relevant today.
As I consider who I am and what I have, how do I deliver on my assignments? Am I really conscious of what God demands, and am I careful to point men in His direction as I seek to impact the lives of men? This has to be the daily walk for me: it must not just be about chasing clout, seeking applause or approval from men, self-glory or adulation, but that God is visible in and through me. It means that for me to effectively and efficiently carry out my responsibilities, I need the character of the One who owns the gifts, the platform for the gifts to be exercised, and the lives that are to be impacted by the gifts. If He is not glorified by my use of His gifts, what is the point?
As I serve in my office, the how is as critical as the why. Men may see the effort, but effort alone does not always equate to impact. As the verses before the one above makes clear, I could speak many languages eloquently, or exercise the gift of prophecy with ease, or as an extreme, even give everything I own, to the point of offering my body to be burnt, yet, if the motive is not aligned with God's nature, which is love, it ends up as a waste of time and effort. Men may love what you do, because all they see is the physical, but the God who sees beyond the physical is the One whose view matters, and who I must please in all I do. Who do I please: God, or man?
The verse above makes clear what the right standard is. Love, God's version, endures with patience and serenity. It does not give up on anyone easily. Love, God's version, is kind and thoughtful. It puts itself in the shoes of other people, seeking their good. Love, God's version, is not jealous or envious. It does not see itself as better than other people, but it finds joy and fulfilment in pouring into others. Love, God's version, does not brag, and is not proud or arrogant. All the above represent what God desires from all who claim personal knowledge of Him. It is in the fruit of my life that its foundations are known. If He is in, love is the norm. If He is not, this is one you cannot fake. God's time of favour is here.