John 13:34 AMP
[34] I am giving you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, so you too are to love one another.
Galatians 6:2 AMP
[2] Carry one another’s burdens and in this way you will fulfill the requirements of the law of Christ [that is, the law of Christian love].
The two verses above are connected; one is by the ultimate discipler, and the other is by one of the many disciples of the discipler. The discipler spent time on earth, laying down the principles and practices of His kingdom; He also spent time raising men that would live out these principles, and became visible and audible testimonies to the power and impact of these principles. Jesus is no longer in the flesh down here on earth but those who He has raised as His own and breathed on, are still here on earth. How would Jesus be made known, and how would men be drawn to Him if there was no one to reveal what He looks, speaks, walks and works like?
This is where the disciple comes in. For all who have come to the saving knowledge of Jesus, there is an expected lifestyle that reflects new ownership, new pursuits and new priorities. We now live by different standards. Whatever it was that was important in the old life no longer holds the same attraction in the new life. That change of direction is really non-negotiable. I cannot successfully play both sides: please God and please the world at the same time. My new ownership places a demand on me to look, speak and relate like the One I claim to know and follow. It must be clear that the world knows those which are its own, and that is why being a true follower of Christ cannot be hidden.
The discipler has laid down the standard. In the account of John, a new commandment was laid down, which is that those who know and follow Him must love others the same way He loves them. Truly, you can only show off that which you have, and you can only take out from that which you have in abundance to bless other people. If I am still under the yoke and influence of the old nature, it will be near impossible to love others the way Jesus has commanded here. Before Jesus, you could get away with the minimum, but in this new dispensation of grace, the demand is higher. I must look outside myself to be a blessing to other people. I must see others in the light of how Jesus sees them.
One thing that is clear is that Jesus will not demand from me that which He has not first supplied sufficient grace for. As the disciple lays out in Galatians, I am expected to help carry other people's burdens. It does not mean that I do not have my own burdens, but I have been set free from the burden of selfishness and given a burden of love for other people. It is only a Jesus-broken man that can see as Jesus sees. As I seek to be a blessing to other people, God will also raise men that will be blessings to me too. Not to forget that helping others is one of the laws of Christ; if I am His, I will live by His laws. Are you His? Am I? Can He command obedience from me? God's time of favour is here.