Proverbs 17:17 MSG
[17] Friends love through all kinds of weather,and families stick together in all kinds of trouble.
Relationships are one of humanity's greatest currencies. In the story of creation, man was the most thought out, and reflected the most creative part of God's power when He made man in His own image, and after His likeness. God did not stop there; He then placed mam in the midst of other people: made him a member of a family, placed him in the midst of a community of other people, gifted him to impact his society, gave him work or business to be able to meet and bless other people with his gifts, talents and endowments. From the life of Adam and Eve has now come the lives of over 8 billion people. What a testament to God's power.
However, as we now know, the fact that we can all trace our origins to Adam and Eve does not stop conflicts or disagreements. The fall of man in the Garden of Eden now ensures that man can go to extreme lengths to hold and defend his position, even if wrong. It is hard for the fallen man to accept he is wrong, and wars have been fought and lives wasted, simply because one man would not accept the fact that maybe, he did not know all he thought he knew about a matter. We have seen where murder and mayhem are initiated by one member of a family against another, leading to the breakup of that family. This was not God's intention at creation.
As you read the words of the verse above, you see clearly the mind of God for making and placing man the way He did. He did not create an Omnipotent man; there is no one like that. What He made is an independent creature in identity and purpose, but co-dependent in implementation and relationship. He knew the danger and power of pride, so He made sure that only in cooperation with other people could all of our full potential be identified and realised. Relationships are built between people, and these sometimes transcend generations, tribes and cultures. When friendships are genuine, the bonds are deeper than skin colour or facial appearance.
This is the message in the verse above. Why look for help from across continents, when you can have someone close by who could step in to help when needed? True friends are the ones who love you through any kind of weather. They may offer criticism sometimes, but it is from a place of love, not hatred. They may not always like your choices, but they are able to make that clear distinction between the person and the practices. God has placed us in positions where crucial help and support are available, whether it is un physical, or in spiritual families. Before making a demand on someone else, am I that kind of dependable person? Can God trust me to a friend to someone who needs it? God's time of favour is here.