Proverbs 3:7 AMP
Be not wise in your own eyes; reverently fear and worship the Lord and turn [entirely] away from evil.
Proverbs 8:13 AMPC
The reverent fear and worshipful awe of thm8 Lord [includes] the hatred of evil; pride, arrogance, the evil way, and perverted and twisted speech I hate.
Indeed, Solomon is recorded in the bible as the wisest man who ever lived. When you consider the books that are generally attributed to him, you find the themes of enthusiasm and romance of youth in the book of Songs of Solomon; themes of the wisdom and responsibility of adulthood in the book of Proverbs from where the verses above are taken, and then the themes of the reflections and lessons of old age in the book of Ecclesiastes. That is essentially all of life's full coverage, from birth to death. God is invested in my entire life too, from birth to death, and He wants me to submit all to Him. That is an offering God will never turn down.
God blessed Solomon with wisdom because he asked God for it, and we see the impact of a life that God blesses. Two of the great lessons that the life of Solomon teaches me are that God is ready, willing and able to give us all that we ask, as long as the purpose behind usage is to glorify the giver. The other lesson, as we have consistently pointed out, is that God will not force Himself on anyone, and He will not go against the exercise of my freewill. These two lessons run through the verses above. Just like Solomon, If a man seeks to glorify God, God is also interested in blessing such a man. Am I interested in an offering that God is pleased to accept?
That is what happened to David and Solomon. David laid the foundation; Solomon knew that the kingly assignment was beyond his current capacity, so he went to the One with limitless resources to help him. In the same way, if I will ever amount to anything of value, I cannot be self-sufficient. As the verse above makes clear, I cannot be wise in my own eyes and still depend on God to help me. I am unable to combine both extremes into a single heart. How can I juggle and satisfy the demands of two completely different authorities at the same time? How can I seek to please God one moment and then appease the flesh at the next moment? That is confusion.
As one of the verses above lays out, the reverent fear and worshipful awe of the Lord also includes the hatred of evil and arrogance or pride. The other charges us to reverently fear and worship the Lord and turn entirely away from evil. I cannot turn to God, and also have an eye on pleasing the human nature. This is what God calls lukewarmness, and the eventual impact is that God spews such people out of His mouth. I cannot love God and also love whatever He hates at the same time. He has not left us in doubt as to what He desires from us, and this is what makes His judgment right. Would you seek Him the right way? Would I? God's time of favour is here.