Warn!

Warn!

Give a warning to all those who cause arguments. If they continue to cause trouble after a second warning, then don’t associate with them. Titus 3:10 ERV

Human relationships are complex. It would seem that disagreements and arguments are integral parts of these relationships, as it is almost impossible for any two people to be completely agreed on any one point. However, what is important is this: what do I do in the face of disagreement? How do I handle opposing ideas and views? What is the best way to handle disagreements? Today's extract sheds some light on these matters.

It appears to me that there could be a central truth on a particular issue, but there will be different perspectives to how two people receive and understand this central truth. If I take a point of view that is opposite of my friend, would I be willing to hear my friend out and see his/her point of view? As long as the other person's view is not against God's Word and will, would I be willing to accommodate this other view? When it does not appear that there is any agreement on this view, how do we proceed? If there is any threat to the good of the church, both parties must be warned about their conduct and where the threat continues after a second warning, Paul recommends a stop to associating with such persons.

Why is that: the focus isn't about who is right or wrong, but about keeping the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace. When the focus is on God, I worry less about being right or wrong or having my way. Why would Jesus ask me to turn the other cheek or even surrender my cloak if asked to give up my coat? It's never about being right all the time, but allowing my life to be a vessel God can flow through. What louder message can my life preach than when God's peace is my response to conflict and disagreements?

And the warning is dire: do not associate with that divisive person. Why is that: it is easier to pollute a good mix than to make good what is already bad. The Bible warns: bad company corrupts good manners. Why can't more of good manners overwhelm the bad? This is why I must be careful of the relationships that impact my life. There are also eternal consequences to the decisions I make today and the company I keep presently? What's your present focus? His time of favour is here.