Friends?
A friend loves at all times, and is born, as is a brother, for adversity. Proverbs 17:17 AMPC
Human relationships are complex. You find good friends and people who become bad friends. Most times, they didn't start as bad people, but due to different circumstances, they became something else. It seems to me that today's extract defines a friend as someone who is there for you, no matter your circumstances or issues. Friendship is not based on external bliss, but is the result of time-tested values. You find someone who you can relate with, and both of you work at being the best version of yourselves.
Let it be clear that quarrels and strife will arise. No good friends can successfully keep misunderstandings away, but what is key here is that clear line that come what may, nothing affects the foundations of the love that we share. David and Jonathan are one of the best examples of true friendship. Here was a boy anointed to be king, being in close friendship with the known heir to the throne. Yet, no matter how hard Saul tried, he could do nothing about this love. That's what God needs from us in this generation.
What use is a brother or friend who lies and pretends all is well? What use is a friend who is only true when things are fine? How do you trust the heart of another when you only see them when all is well with you? It could be that they were just there for the good times, not the bad times. It may be a good time to audit my own relationships as well as my own heart. What kind of friend am I? Can I be trusted long-term? Am I good for all seasons or only the nice seasons? His time of favour is here.